Friday, August 11, 2017

~ ɴαтιoɴαl ѕoɴѕ αɴd dαυɢнтerѕ dαy ~





Each year on August 11th, parents across the United States participate in National Son’s and Daughter’s Day. On this day, spend time with the joys of your life.

Let your children know that you are glad they are part of your life. Share family stories, listen to the events of their day, their hopes, and dreams. Enjoy every day you have with them and spend as much quality time as you can.

HOW TO OBSERVE

Do something special for your children today. If they are at home, go for a walk or enjoy a local park. If your children are grown, give them a call and remind them how special they are to you. Use #SonsAndDaughtersDay on social media.


What my wonderful Sons and Daughters mean to me

Rather it be Second Life or Real Life, my children are my lifeline. I take being a parent very important and serious. My second life children know that day or night they can contact me inworld or in the real world. They may not be genetically mine in real life but they are MINE. All of my children have been with me for years and I cherish so much. No relationship is perfect and definitely not one between a parent and their child but in the end they know that everything comes from a place of love. 

My real life son, who is going to be 12 on the 22nd of this month knows and feel my love everyday and yep, yep he is a momma's boy (laughs) and there is nothing wrong with that at all because he is a awesome child. Great grades, very mannerable and laid back like his momma.

On this day to honor it, I just want my children to know that I love them more than words can escape my mouth. They are my heart and soul and without them I am not me. You all complete me and I would not trade you for the world! 
Daughters are sweet and sassy and those that will push you to your limits because they will try you!  A Daughter is just a little girl who grows up to be your best friend.


 My little princesses Brooklyn & Divinity
Brooklyn, my mini me, no matter where I am you will always be momma's mini me. I love you to the ends of the earth and back, always and forever.
Divinity, my lil Diva, a sweetheart and sassy at the same time. You definitely a lil Diva, know that momma loves you at all times no matter place or space. 



 My big Princess ~ Diamond
Where do I start with my lil sassy princess that definitely keep me on my toes and stressed out at the same time. LOL I love you to the moon and back and no matter what happens you will always be my Diamond princess.

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My Prince ~ Mir aka Ramario (S.I.H)
Three months ago, my world was crushed when I lost you and even though you are no longer in this world, you are forever and ever in our hearts and in our minds. You were my bad ass, my unfiltered, awesome son. I will love you until my last breath.

My Prince ~ Andres
My wonderful surprise! From the day you have entered my life, you always bring joy. Even at your worse you still have a wonderful heart. Don't ever lose that. Any day or night you need me, always know your mother will ALWAYS be here. I love you to pieces my honey bunch, never forget that.


My unborn Prince ~ Remy Amir





Signing off

Destiny Davis aka Big Sister On Point

Sunday, August 6, 2017

🕵️ National Fraud Awareness week- Aug. 6th - 12th

10 COMMON TYPES OF FRAUD – AND HOW TO AVOID THEM

We usually enjoy being fooled. We pay magicians to delight us with startling illusions. We demand filmmakers impress us with increasingly realistic special effects. We’re delighted when someone throws us a surprise birthday party.
But when we’re fooled into buying a product that’s never delivered, invest in a company that doesn’t exist or enter our credit card information on a phony website, that’s not fun at all. In fact, that’s fraud. It’s a crime. And, together, it costs us billions of dollars every year.
Here are 10 common types of fraud you’re apt to encounter on any given day and ways to avoid them.
 
1. Phony Checks. This is a simple and easy fraud. Someone pays you with a check when there’s actually little or no money in the account. To protect yourself, never take a check that doesn’t include an address and confirm both the name and address against the buyer’s driver’s license. That way, if the check does bounce, you know who to pursue.
2. Phony Internet Sellers. While surfing the Net, you’re liable to run across items (often name brand watches, jewelry or electronics) being offered at ridiculously low prices. Many of these sellers are phony; they’ll take your money, but never deliver the item. Always check user reviews and ratings before buying online.
3. Online Misrepresentation. This is a subtler form of fraud in which the seller offers a so-called high-value item at a steep discount price. Often, such items aren’t worth nearly what the seller says they are. Before buying, do an apples-to-apples comparison by checking what other sellers are listing the same item for on the Internet. If you can’t find the item anywhere else, chances are it’s a scam.
 
4. Website Misdirection. Even buying from a top retailer like Amazon.com or Overstock.com can be dangerous. No, those companies aren’t crooked, but sophisticated hackers have found ways to mimic these companies’ checkout pages so when you go to pay for your purchase, you’re actually giving your credit card information to someone else. Whenever you reach a checkout page, check the website address at the top of your web browser. Make sure it matches that of the original site and doesn’t contain an odd country extension like “.ru,” which means “Russia.”
5. Charities Fraud. Americans enjoy giving to worthy causes, which is something con artists are eager to take advantage of. Especially around the holidays, you’re apt to get emails or phone solicitations asking you to donate to any number of charities. Some may be legitimate. Many others are not. If you want to give to a charity, never respond to a solicitation. Choose the charity for yourself and donate directly.
6. Debt Elimination. Many Americans are in debt. Some seriously so. If you’re in such a situation, you may be tempted by ads by companies that promise to negotiate with banks and credit card companies on your behalf so you can zero your debt for just pennies on the dollar. Many of these scams ask for partial payment up front – often $1,500 to $2,000 – as well as all your credit card information. They’re bogus. And, in the end, you’re not only out $1,500 to $2,000, but you’ve also given away all your credit card information, which the scammers are now free to use.
 
7. Work-at-Home Scams. Millions of Americans now telecommute, so the idea of working from home sounds viable. But most of the ads that say you can “Make $25 to $200 working at home!” are frauds, especially if the company behind them asks you to pay to join their program. At best, you’ll be hired to get other people involved in the scam.
8. Pyramid Schemes. Frequently disguised as “multilevel marketing programs,” these schemes promise you high returns on your investment if you can recruit other people to work as your marketing network. Of course, they only way they can make money is if they recruit other people to become part of their marketing networks, etc. The way such programs evade the law is by making it possible to make money by selling actual products or services, but their real focus is the financial pyramid, which only serves the people at the very top. The best and only way to protect yourself is just to avoid them.
9. Online Pharmacy Frauds. On any given day, you will likely receive numerous spam emails advertising any number of prescription drugs at low prices through online pharmacies. Many of these pharmacies are scams that sell counterfeit or expired drugs that have been relabeled to look legitimate. At best, you’re just buying harmless sugar pills. At worst, the drugs could cause real harm. There are legitimate online pharmacies on the Internet, but again, investigate them thoroughly before sending them your money.
10. Identity Theft. The fastest-growing type of fraud in the world is identity theft. It occurs when the fraudster uses your credit card or bank account information to buy items and then charge them to you. The simplest way to protect yourself is to destroy receipts, bank card statements, credit card bills, etc., before throwing them in the trash.
The impact fraud can have on an organization can be monumental. Not only can it have a significant financial impact, but, depending on the type and severity, it can also destroy an organization. While there are many types of fraud, there are a select few that can cause the most damage.
Financial statement fraud.
Although it’s less common, financial statement fraud can be the most damaging to a company. Overstating revenue, earnings and assets – along with understating liabilities (or just plain concealing them) are the most common activities found with this type of fraud. Enron and WorldComm are two semi-recent, high-profile cases involving financial statement fraud.
Asset misappropriation.
Some of the more common types of fraud fall into the category of asset misappropriation, which closely-held businesses are most susceptible to.
Skimming of cash and cash larceny.
This type of asset misappropriation consists of taking cash before it even enters the company’s accounting system. It’s very hard to uncover (since it requires finding evidence of something that hasn’t been recorded yet) and it doesn’t require a lot of sophistication to execute, making it a popular choice among those that commit fraud. Check tampering, accounts receivable skimming, fake billing schemes, payroll schemes, fake or duplicate expense reimbursement schemes and inventory schemes are also other common examples of asset misappropriation.
Misuse of company assets.
Another common type of asset misappropriation is the misuse of company assets. Not only is it problematic since it’s the unauthorized use of company assets, but it can also open up the company to significant liability.
Theft of intellectual property and trade secrets.
As our world becomes increasingly driven by information and technology, an increase in the theft of intellectual property and trade secrets is on the rise.
Healthcare, insurance and banking.
Healthcare, insurance and banking are all industries that have billions of dollars flowing through their systems, making them prime targets for this type of fraudulent activity. Bogus health insurance claims, business insurance claims, and fraudulent bankruptcies are all ways individuals commit this type of fraud.
Consumer fraud.
Individuals targeted through cons, bogus telemarketing, email, Ponzi schemes, phishing, ID theft and other schemes, are all victims of consumer fraud. Whether it’s an organization system breach or bogus tax returns filed for large refunds, consumer fraud is on the rise. Companies can also be victims of email phishing scams – especially spear phishing, which involves sending targeted, disguised emails that contain malicious links. 
Fraud can take many shapes and can impact an organization in many ways – not just financially. Understanding how and where your company may be vulnerable, as well as taking the proper steps to protect against vulnerabilities is a must.
 
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Thursday, July 13, 2017

☀🌞🌤 National Nude Day- July 14th, 2017 ☀🌞🌤

 

NATIONAL NUDE DAY

July 14th laundry is unnecessary. It’s National Nude Day! 
National Nude Day is a way to keep cool on a hot, sticky summer day. Nudist groups around the world celebrate this holiday and take it quite seriously!  Nudists are not perverts…even though their desire to go “au natural” might be offensive to the conservative population!  Nudists are individuals who believe the human body is most beautiful in their natural state. Whether or not you agree with them, nudists encourage people to shed the restrictions of clothing and be natural.
 
HOW TO OBSERVE
However, you chose to celebrate this holiday, avoid breaking any Public Decency Laws.  Post on social media using #NationalNudeDay.
Nudist colonies, nude beaches, and other venues exist to cater to the preferences of individuals who seek to walk around "au natural". Even the conservative city of Buffalo, NY gets in on the act, holding an annual nude bike ride, encouraging participants to wear as little as they want.
We will not suggest that this is right or wrong. We simply desire to make you aware of all of this holiday. Snicker if you will. But, please don't put the "sleeze" into this holiday.
Friday, July 14, is National Nude Day, one of those odd holidays that appear on the internet as if out of nowhere. Its origins are said to lie in 1970s-era New Zealand, but beyond that, little is known. Luckily, we don't need a thorough history lesson to understand what National Nude Day is all about.
For those of you who find sending nude photos or adopting a nudist lifestyle a little too on-the-nose, you can still pay homage to this venerable holiday by participating in a naked run this summer.
We've yet to encounter a 5K that was founded explicitly in honor of National Nude Day, but we think it's safe to say that doing anything in the nude on or around July 14 counts as a sufficient celebration. And fortunately, there are enough nude runs out there to keep you celebrating into August.
Oh, and if you're worried that these runs are for serious sprinters only, think again. Most of them are open to anyone's who's willing to lace up their sneakers and drop trou. We just recommend that you apply sun screen liberally and follow the venue's safety and privacy guidelines (a common rule at nudist clubs is not to take any photos whatsoever). Ahead, check out six runs you can tackle in the buff this summer.
 
 
Remember to have fun, be safe, and don't forget the sunscreen  😊
 
{Over and Out}- Egypt A. Assanti {aka} Big Sister Southern Heat- ESD Baroness 👑

 
 
 

 

Thursday, June 29, 2017

💻 Social Media Day 💻

 
Social media is the collective of online communications channels dedicated to community-based input, interaction, content-sharing and collaboration.
 
Websites and applications dedicated to forums, microbloggingsocial networkingsocial bookmarkingsocial curation, and wikis are among the different types of social media.
 
The world's most popular social networking sites certainly have changed over the years, and they'll undoubtedly continue to change as time moves forward. Old social networks will die, popular ones will stick around as they're forced to evolve, and brand new ones will appear (just watch out for fake news sites!)
We've moved on from the days of MySpace to a social media era now dominated by Facebook and all sorts of other social mobile apps. A lot of kids even admit to using Snapchat the most, suggesting that it could be the future of where social networking is headed.
Facebook is a popular free social networking website that allows registered users to create profiles, upload photos and video, send messages and keep in touch with friends, family and colleagues. According to statistics from the Nielsen Group, Internet users within the United States spend more time on Facebook than any other website.
  • Twitter is a free microblogging service that allows registered members to broadcast short posts called tweets. Twitter members can broadcast tweets and follow other users' tweets by using multiple platforms and devices.
  • Google+ (pronounced Google plus) is Google's social networking project, designed to replicate the way people interact offline more closely than is the case in other social networking services. The project’s slogan is “Real-life sharing rethought for the web.”
 
Wikipedia
  • is a free, open content online encyclopedia created through the collaborative effort of a community of users known as Wikipedians. Anyone registered on the site can create an article for publication; registration is not required to edit articles. Wikipedia was founded in January of 2001.
  • LinkedIn is a social networking site designed specifically for the business community. The goal of the site is to allow registered members to establish and document networks of people they know and trust professionally.
  • Reddit is a social news website and forum where stories are socially curated and promoted by site members. The site is composed of hundreds of sub-communities, known as "subreddits." Each subreddit has a specific topic such as technology, politics or music. Reddit site members, also known as, "redditors," submit content which is then voted upon by other members. The goal is to send well-regarded stories to the top of the site's main thread page.
Pinterest
  • is a social curation website for sharing and categorizing images found online. Pinterest requires brief descriptions but the main focus of the site is visual. Clicking on an image will take you to the original source, so, for example, if you click on a picture of a pair of shoes, you might be taken to a site where you can purchase them. An image of blueberry pancakes might take you to the recipe; a picture of a whimsical birdhouse might take you to the instructions.
Brian Solis created the following social media chart, known as the conversation prism, to categorize social sites and services into various types of social media.
Social media is becoming an integral part of life online as social websites and applications proliferate. Most traditional online media include social components, such as comment fields for users. In business, social media is used to market products, promote brands, connect to current customers and foster new business.
Social media analytics is the practice of gathering data from blogs and social media websites and analyzing that data to make business decisions. The most common use of social media analytics is to mine customer sentiment to support marketing and customer service activities.
Social media marketing (SMM) takes advantage of social networking to help a company increase brand exposure and broaden customer reach. The goal is usually to create content compelling enough that users will share it with their social networks. 
One of the key components of SMM is social media optimization (SMO). Like search engine optimization (SEO), SMO is a strategy for drawing new and unique visitors to a website. SMO can be done two ways: by adding social media links to content such as RSS feeds and sharing buttons, or by promoting activity through social media via status updates,  tweets, or blog posts.
Social CRM (customer relationship marketing) can be a very powerful business tool. For example, establishing a Facebook page allows people who like your brand and the way you conduct business to Like your page, which creates a venue for communication, marketing and networking. Through social media sites, you can follow conversations about your brand for real-time market data and feedback.
From the customer’s perspective, social media makes it easy to tell a company and everyone else about their experiences with that company -- whether those experiences are good or bad. The business can also respond very quickly to both positive and negative feedback, attend to customer problems and maintain, regain or rebuild customer confidence. 
Enterprise social networking allows a company to connect individuals who share similar business interests or activities. Internally, social tools can help employees access information and resources they need to work together effectively and solve business problems. Externally, public social media platforms help an organization stay close to their customers and make it easier to conduct research that they can use to improve business processes and operations.
Social media is also often used for crowdsourcing. Customers can use social networking sites to offer ideas for future products or tweaks to current ones. In IT projects, crowdsourcing usually involves engaging and blending business and IT services from a mix of internal and external providers, sometimes with input from customers and/or the general public.
On the other hand, the integration of social media in the business world can also pose challenges. Social media policies are designed to set expectations for appropriate behavior and ensure that an employee's posts will not expose the company to legal problems or public embarrassment. Such policies include directives for when an employee should identify himself as a representative of the company on a social networking website, as well as rules for what types of information can be shared.
Enjoy Social Media...... Have Fun.... And Be Safe
{Over and Out} Egypt A. Assanti { aka } Big Sister Southern Heat } ESD "Baroness" 💋👑

Tuesday, June 27, 2017

~PTSD - Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder ~




PTSD is a disorder that develops in some people who have experienced a shocking, scary, or dangerous event.

It is natural to feel afraid during and after a traumatic situation. Fear triggers many split-second changes in the body to help defend against danger or to avoid it. This “fight-or-flight” response is a typical reaction meant to protect a person from harm. Nearly everyone will experience a range of reactions after trauma, yet most people recover from initial symptoms naturally. Those who continue to experience problems may be diagnosed with PTSD. People who have PTSD may feel stressed or frightened even when they are not in danger.

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Not every traumatized person develops ongoing (chronic) or even short-term (acute) PTSD. Not everyone with PTSD has been through a dangerous event. Some experiences, like the sudden, unexpected death of a loved one, can also cause PTSD.




Symptoms usually begin early, within 3 months of the traumatic incident, but sometimes they begin years afterward. Symptoms must last more than a month and be severe enough to interfere with relationships or work to be considered PTSD. The course of the illness varies. Some people recover within 6 months, while others have symptoms that last much longer. In some people, the condition becomes chronic.

A doctor who has experience helping people with mental illnesses, such as a psychiatrist or psychologist, can diagnose PTSD.

To be diagnosed with PTSD, an adult must have all of the following for at least 1 month:
At least one re-experiencing symptom
At least one avoidance symptom
At least two arousal and reactivity symptoms
At least two cognition and mood symptoms
Re-experiencing symptoms include:
Flashbacks—reliving the trauma over and over, including physical symptoms like a racing heart or sweating
Bad dreams
Frightening thoughts

Re-experiencing symptoms may cause problems in a person’s everyday routine. The symptoms can start from the person’s own thoughts and feelings. Words, objects, or situations that are reminders of the event can also trigger re-experiencing symptoms.
Avoidance symptoms include:
Staying away from places, events, or objects that are reminders of the traumatic experience
Avoiding thoughts or feelings related to the traumatic event

Things that remind a person of the traumatic event can trigger avoidance symptoms. These symptoms may cause a person to change his or her personal routine. For example, after a bad car accident, a person who usually drives may avoid driving or riding in a car.
Arousal and reactivity symptoms include:
Being easily startled
Feeling tense or “on edge”
Having difficulty sleeping
Having angry outbursts

Arousal symptoms are usually constant, instead of being triggered by things that remind one of the traumatic events. These symptoms can make the person feel stressed and angry. They may make it hard to do daily tasks, such as sleeping, eating, or concentrating.
Cognition and mood symptoms include:
Trouble remembering key features of the traumatic event
Negative thoughts about oneself or the world
Distorted feelings like guilt or blame
Loss of interest in enjoyable activities

Cognition and mood symptoms can begin or worsen after the traumatic event, but are not due to injury or substance use. These symptoms can make the person feel alienated or detached from friends or family members.

It is natural to have some of these symptoms after a dangerous event. Sometimes people have very serious symptoms that go away after a few weeks. This is called acute stress disorder, or ASD. When the symptoms last more than a month, seriously affect one’s ability to function, and are not due to substance use, medical illness, or anything except the event itself, they might be PTSD. Some people with PTSD don’t show any symptoms for weeks or months. PTSD is often accompanied by depression, substance abuse, or one or more of the other anxiety disorders.
Do children react differently than adults?

Children and teens can have extreme reactions to trauma, but their symptoms may not be the same as adults. In very young children (less than 6 years of age), these symptoms can include:
Wetting the bed after having learned to use the toilet
Forgetting how to or being unable to talk
Acting out the scary event during playtime
Being unusually clingy with a parent or other adult




It is important to remember that not everyone who lives through a dangerous event develops PTSD. In fact, most people will not develop the disorder.

Many factors play a part in whether a person will develop PTSD. Some examples are listed below. Risk factors make a person more likely to develop PTSD. Other factors, called resilience factors, can help reduce the risk of the disorder.

The main treatments for people with PTSD are medications, psychotherapy (“talk” therapy), or both. Everyone is different, and PTSD affects people differently so a treatment that works for one person may not work for another. It is important for anyone with PTSD to be treated by a mental health provider who is experienced with PTSD. Some people with PTSD need to try different treatments to find what works for their symptoms.

If someone with PTSD is going through an ongoing trauma, such as being in an abusive relationship, both of the problems need to be addressed. Other ongoing problems can include panic disorder, depression, substance abuse, and feeling suicidal.



Signing off
Destiny C. Davis aka
Big Sister On Point