Thursday, October 11, 2018

*•.¸♡ ๐“๐“ช๐“ฝ๐“ฒ๐“ธ๐“ท๐“ช๐“ต ๐“˜’๐“ถ ๐“™๐“พ๐“ผ๐“ฝ ๐“œ๐“ฎ ๐“‘๐“ฎ๐“ฌ๐“ช๐“พ๐“ผ๐“ฎ ๐“œ๐“ธ๐“ท๐“ฝ๐“ฑ ♡¸.•*


I'm sure like myself many people did not even know that this existed but once I found it, I was like oh this would be a great blog to help people be uplifted and motivated especially to love themselves. I will give the history of this movement and then participate myself. Spread the word and add to it! 


I’m Just Me Because Month in October invites all people to express their individuality …Their motto is “Be Yourself!”

For the month of October it focuses on promoting individual development, creating environments that break down stereotypes, and embracing who we really are. The movement recognizes the diversity around them, and they move beyond simple tolerance to celebrate humanity. It's all about giving voice to the things that make us unique and understanding and recognizing that acceptance helps change the culture. 

The I’m Just Me Movement reminds us the concept of diversity encompasses acceptance and respect. It means understanding that each individual is unique, and recognizing our individual differences. These can be along the dimensions of race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, socio-economic status, age, physical abilities, religious beliefs, political beliefs, or other ideologies. Understanding diversity is the exploration of these differences in a safe, positive, and nurturing environment. It is about understanding each other and embracing and celebrating the rich variety contained within us.

We can express ourselves through our strengths, talents and achievements. Some may choose to define themselves by their challenges or appearance; others emphasize their inner beauty or unique features. I’m Just Me Because Month provides endless conversations starters from hair color to where a person was born, but we don’t have to be defined only by our circumstances, mistakes or by address. Remember, to identify the connection of the world’s greatest you, and be THAT! As Tina says, “Live life forward.”

HOW TO OBSERVE THIS MOVEMENT
Express the ways that make you the unique individual you are throughout the month of October. Celebrate the person that is like no other and be you! Use the #ImJustMeBecause and tell everyone why by posting on social media.

HISTORY
The I’m Just Me Movement grew from the experiences of the Culbreath family who in 2013 created a fundraiser to help with costs of post-graduation support for their son, Rze Culbreath. Rze had just graduated and his mother, about the same time, had been diagnosed with Stage 3 Breast Cancer. Their son’s dream to attend college, despite his challenges, was remarkable. Tina Stevens-Culbreath and Rodney Culbreath, SR created a fundraiser and called it the I’m Just Me Movement. The funding would impact their son in ways they didn’t expect and life would take unexpected turns like life often does. They learned about their community, their neighbors, their son and each other.

On through 2014, they continued outreach of inclusion; November 2015, the I’m Just Me Movement became a non-profit organization with a mission of spreading awareness and breaking down stereotypes. Rze’s parents, Tina and Rodney, felt inspired by their son and the community to continue their efforts to impact individuals.

November 2016, the I’m Just Me Movement founded -I’m Just Me Because Month in hopes of reaching people on a national level, to encourage celebrating the rich scopes of diversity contained within each individual through acceptance and respect for one another. The Registrar at National Day Calendar proclaimed I’m Just Me Because Month to be observed annually in October.

About I’m Just Me Movement
Today, through their organization founders Rze Culbreath, Rodney Culbreath SR, Zach Harrell, Christine Stevens-Culbreath play a positive role in young lives every day. With great team members, they are providing their Live Life Forward Initiative workshops, mentoring, presentations and many more programs through a variety of venues including schools, businesses and events. I’m Just Me Movement speaks out to advocate and raise awareness about inclusion, diversity, bullying, and self-esteem issues, to positively impact youth/communities and guide, teach, train, and mentor them to a better future.

Our Approach to Help Stop Bullying! We believe that the solution to the ending the cycle of bullying resides with the fact that we must nurture who they are and help them build self-esteem as well! People are less likely to cut others down and be more compassionate when they feel good about themselves. The bully is part of the solution!





#ImJustMeBecause


I'm just me because I'm genuine and real with anyone in my life. To some that may be too much and honestly I have lost people in my life because of my honesty, but I would rather be real, honest and lose someone that wasn't meant to stay in my life then be fake, lie and keep the people in my life that never belonged. 


#ImJustMeBecause
I'm just me because I'm a leader not a follower! I was born to lead not follow the crowd. I believe in originality and taking my own lead. That sometimes makes me seem like a loner and I'm perfectly okay with that....


What about you????



*•.¸♡ ๐“ข๐“ฒ๐“ฐ๐“ท๐“ฒ๐“ท๐“ฐ ๐“ž๐“พ๐“ฝ..... ๐““๐“ป. ๐““๐“ฎ๐“ผ๐“ฝ๐“ฒ๐“ท๐”‚ ๐“ข๐“ช๐“ท๐“ฝ๐“ฒ๐“ช๐“ฐ๐“ธ 
                                      ๐“ช๐“ด๐“ช ๐“‘๐“ฒ๐“ฐ ๐“ข๐“ฒ๐“ผ๐“ฝ๐“ฎ๐“ป ๐“ž๐“ท ๐“Ÿ๐“ธ๐“ฒ๐“ท๐“ฝ ♡¸.•*

Tuesday, October 9, 2018

•*⁂ ฤomestic Violeฮทce Awฮฑreฮทess ฮ—ฮฃฮ”

❇Domestic violence affects millions, both women and men, of every race, religion, culture and status. It’s not just punches and black eyes -- it’s yelling, humiliation, stalking, manipulation, coercion, threats and isolation. It’s stealing a paycheck, keeping tabs online, non-stop texting, constant use the silent treatment, or calling someone stupid so often they believe it.

❇Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behaviors used by one individual intended to exert power and control over another individual in the context of an intimate or family relationship.

~~ Pattern ~~

❇Domestic violence involves more than one or even several isolated incidents of violence. It involves an interrelated pattern that includes a wide variety of abusive behaviors and usually increases in frequency and intensity over time.

~~ The Cycle of Violence ~~

❇The cycle of violence can happen many times in an abusive relationship. Each stage lasts a different amount of time in the relationship, with the total cycle taking from a few hours to a year or more to complete. Emotional abuse is present in all three stages.

~~ Abusive Behaviors ~~

❇Abusive or coercive behaviors may include, but are not limited to, physical assaults, verbal assaults, threats, intimidation, use of weapons, isolation, destruction of property, violence toward other significant people or pets, sexual manipulation and control over economic resources.
Examples of emotional, physical, sexual and financial abuse.

~~ Intent ~~

 ❇The pattern of behaviors is not a matter of coincidence or the result of a time-limited crisis. Rather, it is an ongoing pattern in the relationship whereby the abuser acts to control the other person.

❇Domestic Violence and the Connection to Homelessness

When a person leaves an abusive relationship, they often have nowhere to go. For many, the only choices are staying in the abusive environment, going to a shelter or living on the street. Studies show a connection between domestic violence to homelessness, particularly among families with children. Some studies have found domestic violence to be the leading cause of homelessness among women with children. Shelters provide immediate safety, respite and supportive services. Unfortunately, shelters are frequently filled to capacity and often turn away women and their children.
❇Domestic violence (also called intimate partner violence, domestic abuse, dating violence, spousal abuse, and intimate partner abuse) is any form of maltreatment that takes place in a heterosexual or homosexual romantic relationship between adults or adolescents.

❇Intimate partner abuse is a major public-health problem, due to its affecting more than 2 million women and 800,000 men and resulting in homelessness, injury, or death of victims, billions of dollars in health-care costs, and lost work productivity.

❇Warning signs friends, family members, and coworkers can look for if they wonder whether the person they care about is the victim of domestic abuse include frequent absences from school or work, numerous injuries the victim tries to explain, low self-esteem, a change in their personality, fear of conflicts, passive-aggressive behavior, blaming him- or herself for the problems in their relationship, isolation from others, or stress-related physical symptoms.

❇Effective solutions for preventing intimate partner abuse include providing economic opportunity, mentors, role models who are survivors of domestic violence, organized community programs for youth and families and a school environment that promotes prevention of abusiveness in any relationship. Adult family members can help prevent domestic violence by being nurturing and by providing consistent, structured supervision. Raising the awareness about intimate partner violence in society at large, as occurs during Domestic Violence Awareness Month each October, can be invaluable to educating people about this issue.


FOR MORE INFORMATION ON DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
FOLLOW LINK:

https://www.medicinenet.com/domestic_violence/article.htm#domestic_violence_facts

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Friday, October 5, 2018

๐ŸŽ‰ ★ๅฝก สœแดแดแด‡แด„แดแดษชษดษข แดกแด‡แด‡แด‹ ส€แด‡แด„แด€แด˜! ๅฝก★ ๐ŸŽ‰


If you missed any part of the homecoming week then you sure did miss out. Each day took us to a different movie ESD style! ESD 5th Annual Homecoming Week was off the chain! Not only was it fun but it was also for a serious cause.... Sickle Cell Anemia Disease. This week we have raised a total of $40,068L for Sickle Cell. If you donated give a pat on the back to yourself because you have made a impact.



Sickle-Cell Anemia is a disease that occurs when the red blood cells in the body are shaped like crescents, which can block blood flow in the blood vessels of the limbs and organs. Blocked blood flow can cause pain and organ damage and also raises the risk for infection.

It is estimated that between 90 to 100,000 Americans are living with Sickle-Cell Anemia, many of them people of color!

Sickle cell disease is an inherited blood disorder that affects red blood cells. People with sickle cell disease have red blood cells that contain mostly hemoglobin* S, an abnormal type of hemoglobin. Sometimes these red blood cells become sickle-shaped (crescent shaped) and have difficulty passing through small blood vessels.

When sickle-shaped cells block small blood vessels, less blood can each that part of the body. Tissue that does not receive a normal blood flow eventually becomes damaged. This is what causes the complications of sickle cell disease. There is currently no universal cure for sickle cell disease.

Hemoglobin is the main substance of the red blood cell. It helps red blood cells carry oxygen from the air in our lungs to all parts of the body. Normal red blood cells contain hemoglobin A. Hemoglobin S and hemoglobin C are abnormal types of hemoglobin. Normal red blood cells are soft and round and can squeeze through tiny blood tubes (vessels). Normally, red blood cells live for about 120 days before new ones replace them.

People with sickle cell conditions make a different form of hemoglobin A called hemoglobin S (S stands for sickle). Red blood cells containing mostly hemoglobin S do not live as long as normal red blood cells (normally about 16 days). They also become stiff, distorted in shape and have difficulty passing through the body’s small blood vessels. When sickle-shaped cells block small blood vessels, less blood can reach that part of the body. Tissue that does not receive a normal blood flow eventually becomes damaged. This is what causes the complications of sickle cell disease.

For More Information, Please Visit:
http://www.sicklecelldisease.org/



Let's go over some of the events this week. 

Day One... Batman... Gotham City Showdown Kick Off



Here are some pictures from the fun filled night...










Day Two... New Jack City... Let's Get Gangster
Bringing you to the 90's in the New Jack City Style












Day 3... Coming To America... Homecoming Dance in Africa

Everyone loves this movie and we had a blast in Africa.... 



Crowned Homecoming Queen Cherry London









Day 4 & Last day... Titanic... Come Aboard the Titanic

What a great time seeing everyone dressed up!








Sponsors Special event... Murder Mystery Dinner 
This was exciting and so fun! Everyone enjoyed the night 











The winners of the Murder Mystery... Theta Delta Alpha



Again on behalf of Eta Sigma Delta Sorority, we would like to thank our wonderful sponsors for this year's Homecoming.

★ ZETA PHI XI SORORITY
★ XI GAMMA XI
★ THETA DELTA ALPHA SORORITY
★ ZETA THETA MU SORORITY
★ OMEGA XI NU
★ HILLMAN UNIVERSITY
★ HILLMAN GENERAL HOSPITAL
★ FAMILY LUV MEDICAL BIRTHING CENTER

★ ROYAL EMPRESS

★ SACRED HEART MEDICAL UNIVERSITY

★ TICKET CENTRAL

★ DJ SPICE 265 FLAVAZ

★ FIVE STAR RESORT



We would also like to thank Alpha Sigma Omega for their awesome donation.


THE FLAWLESS SAPPHIRES OF ETA SIGMA DELTA WOULD LIKE TO SEND A BIG SHOUT OUT TOO ALL OUR FAMILY & FRIENDS WHO CAME OUT AND SHOWED US TREMENDOUS LOVE AND SUPPORT  

TO OUR GREEK COMMUNITY:
★ THETA DELTA ALPHA
★ ZETA THETA MU
★ XI GAMMA XI
★ ZETA PHI XI
★ IOTA CHI EPSILON
★ SIGMA GAMMA SIGMA
★ ALPHA SIGMA OMEGA
★ DELTA RHO ZETA
★ THETA NU THETA
★ OMEGA XI NU
★ NU GAMMA RHO
★ KAPPA XI PSI
★ ZETA NU CHI
★ ETA LAMBDA XI
★ BLACK SKULLZ MCC
★ GAMMA GAMMA PHI
★ ALPHA THETA EPSILON
★ ZETA PHI THETA
★ KAPPA NU CHI

Huge shout out to the awesome DJ's who held us down and did their thing this week:
MC BOOGIE AKA TORREY JAMES SR.
DJ SPICE AKA CLAUDIA URBINA
DR FUNK AKA JOHN T GOODE
DJRAIDOUS GALVINO AKA ARNEZ.M GALVINO

See you all next year for our 6th annual Homecoming with a new theme and new fun! ๐Ÿ˜Š

Signing out
Destiny C. Santiago M.D.
aka Big Sister On Point