This year I am doing the Lung Cancer Awareness Month post a little bit differently. Me and my mother share the same birthday which is today, November 1st and as a tribute to her life and our birthday, I chose to do the blog post on Lung Cancer today. I miss her each and every year and hard to believe it has been 19 years since she has been gone because it still feels like yesterday. Please read this post and take heed of the information given. Be safe...
As with other cancers, lung cancer is heartbreaking, deadly, and attacks like an army. Before telling useful information and facts about lung cancer, I would like to share my story...
My mother smoked cigarettes for many, many years and all attempts to stop smoking just weren't successful. In 1997 I remember it so very clearly, I was at work and my mother was at the doctor getting results from tests that I had no idea she had taken. While it wasn't the best idea for my middle sister to contact me at work, she did and the words that escaped her mouth, I would never forget the feeling I got in the pit of my stomach... Through tears she said... "Mommy has cancer." The phone dropped without me even realizing it and my heart sank and all I heard her say wasn't those words, but to me, it conveyed into, "Mommy is dying." I started crying so hard that my supervisor had to take me to her office and let me get it out there. That day began the journey of my mother's cancer fight and as scared as I was, I was determined to help her get through this fight.
We watched as she endured lung surgery to remove half of her lung, chemotherapy that made her extremely sick and took all of her hair, radiation which made it hard for her to breathe and made her chest area hard and discolored. This was not easy to watch but my mother... My mother is my hero because through it all, she prayed, she smiled, she kept a constant smile and glow to her. You would never believe this woman was enduring so much.
Four years later, they said cancer had gone however, due to all of this trauma, she had heart trouble, diabetes, thyroid surgery, asthma but cancer itself had become what I say dormant but what the doctors said... gone...
A year later, I would never forget, two days after our birthday (we share the same birthday), in November it was 70 degrees out, we had celebrated our birthday by going to times square and having a ball. Two days later she ended up in the hospital, blood sugar spiked, they admitted her and two days after that she was in ICU with the doctors telling us she would not make it, her lungs had filled with blood, and the cancer they said was gone had woken up with a vengeance! But my mother wasn't done. God knew the family wasn't ready to lose her. After two days of not waking up, she awaken, bright-eyed, smiles, and said it was time to come back.
We had my mother for two months after that and as I write this it's ironic everything was happening in twos. On January 31, 2002, my mother lost that fight to Lung Cancer, and while God gained an angel the world lost an amazing soul...
I told my story to wake people up especially smokers.
- lung scarring from tuberculosis
- occupational or environmental exposure to:
• secondhand smoke
• radiation
• asbestos
• air pollution
• arsenic
• some organic chemicals